Friendship
Scripture calls us to enter into community with one another.
We invite you to join us in this Holy calling to be together in Christ with one another.
This season, we live more fully into that calling by prioritizing deep, meaningful friendships with those in our midst. Each week, we'll share a new reflection in our Friendship Corner in the Friday email and Sunday bulletin. Each verse of Scripture will be followed by a reflection from a fellow church member, and a call to action you might engage with during the week.
Click any of the gray bars below to read that week's Scripture and reflection.
Forgive One Another (Will Harwell)
This Week's Scripture
Week of January 26
“Forgive one another as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
Reflection
From Will Harwell
In this verse, Paul is calling for Christians to forgive just as Christ does. In my life, I struggle to forgive in the full way Paul is calling for. Christ’s forgiveness has no boundaries, which humans find difficult to understand. Jesus calls us to seek out the outsiders of our society and show them love. I struggle with this idea because the world is telling me to forget about these people and condemn them, but Christ wants us to seek relationships with everyone just as he did. In the context of St. George’s, the Church can show forgiveness by accepting all and not looking down on anyone. Everyone should be welcome to worship the Lord because at the end of the day we are all seen the same in the eyes of God.
Invitation
Is it difficult for you to forgive others, especially those who are different?
Is there anyone you need to forgive? Maybe a group of people?
How can you show forgiveness in your daily life?
Encourage One Another (Rebecca Harris)
This Week's Scripture
Week of January 19
“Therefore encourage one another with these words.” (1 Thessalonians 4:18)
Reflection
From Rebecca Harris
In times of mourning and uncertainty, the apostle Paul's words provide profound comfort to believers facing loss. Addressing the Thessalonians, who were understandably distressed over the fate of their deceased Christian friends, Paul reassures them of the hope found in Christ’s return. He emphasizes that death does not sever a believer's connection to Christ; rather, those who have died will be resurrected and reunited with those who are still alive at His coming. This promise forms the core of Christian hope and serves as an anchor during times of grief.
Believers are encouraged to comfort one another with this hope, fostering a communal resilience in the face of sorrow. The significant lesson here is that, although mourning is natural, it should not lead to despair, as Christians possess a unique hope that death is not the end. The promise of being together eternally with the Lord calls believers to live with a forward-looking perspective, encouraging mutual support and love within the Christian community.
Source: TheBibleSays
Prayer
Thank You, Heavenly Father of all mercies—the God of all comforts, who brings healing to the broken-hearted, consolation to the suffering, comfort to the soul, and hope in the assurance of the return of Jesus.
Invitation
Are there ways that you can encourage people in your life?
Can you find ways to strengthen others, even when they are not in the midst of strife, simply by being fully present to them?
Pray for One Another (Ridge Barr)
This Week's Scripture
Week of January 12
“And pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” (James 5:16b)
Reflection
From Ridge Barr
James 5:16b tells us we are to "pray for each other so that you may be healed." A healthy, theocentric church community rallies to support, not shame, those struggling with sin and suffering. As faithful Christians, we must remain continually attentive to the needs of others through prayer. Prayer is our most effective tool for those hurting; one meant to break down barriers in miraculous ways. As a young adult, I find it especially helpful to have set times for prayer throughout the day. Consistency in prayer continues to allow me to see God's hand in both my own and others' lives.
Invitation
Take some time now to pray for someone.
How can you pray on a daily basis for others?
Do you keep a prayer journal or list?
The Book of Common Prayer is full of prayers of confession, healing, and all types of prayers. Take some time this week to look through the prayer book.
Is there someone in particular you can pray for this week?
Show Hospitality to One Another (Bob Christenberry)
This Week's Scripture
Week of January 5
“Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.” (1 Peter 4:9)
Reflection
From Bob Christenberry
Consider with me the context of the immediately abutting scripture, fore and aft: 1st Peter 4:8-10: "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s Grace in its various forms."
No one knows for sure that the apostle Peter actually penned these words. He was, after all, a roughhewn Galilean fisherman of questionable skills of literacy. No scholar doubts, though, that he, the imperfect but maybe the most remarkably redeemed man in the New Testament, was the very real author of these words. If they were not his own writing, they were likely spoken by him and remembered by those close at his side.
Let’s remember who he was talking to. These were first-century Christians. A small minority, scattered and vulnerable throughout the Mediterranean region. Oppressed, their very lives endangered for their dogged and unwavering beliefs, faithfully hoping and believing that Christ would return in glory during their lifetimes.
As Margery explained to us in her sermon on November 10, hospitality for these people was not about a nice party for their friends and family with an expensive Pinot Noir, camembert cheese, and rosemary crackers. It was not even about going the step further to have clean sheets and a new bar of French-milled soap in the guest suite. It was about being a people always at the ready to shelter and care for the strangers, the unknowns, the most desperately needy—without a check-out time, often at their own peril of increased exposure to those who wished to harm them all.
This is about as convicting as it gets for me in our weekly confession of sin: "Forgive us for . . . Those . . . sins . . . we have left undone…We have not loved our neighbors as ourselves." It’s uncomfortable to realize how we fall short of Peter’s brand of hospitality—sometimes simply ignoring the shortest of distances to the obvious within our own neighborhoods—but we need not fold our hands in disappointment with ourselves.
Perhaps we should try best to balance those words of confession upon the shoulders of the hospitality Peter describes: "Love each other deeply…you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others." And yes, we are charged to offer this courageous and sacrificial hospitality without grumbling. Some St. Georgians are already yoked in, following this holy charge, working with their sleeves rolled up, without piety, and in good cheer. They inspire the rest of us; and we are empowered, even now, with God’s promised grace, to join them.
Invitation
What does Peter’s type of hospitality mean to you? Have you ever received much-needed hospitality? If you think about your church life, where can you show hospitality? Where can you show it in your daily life?
Welcome One Another (Jonathan Morphett)
This Week's Scripture
Week of December 29
"Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God." (Romans 15:7)
Reflection
From Jonathan Morphett
Paul has prayed for the unity and harmony of the church in Rome. In Romans 15:7, he is instructing them (and us) one more time to welcome each other as Christ has welcomed them. Why? It is all to add to the glory of God in which we have the privilege and joy of participating as a Christian community. So let us embrace and welcome each other’s differences, whether in strength of faith or beliefs or background or culture (or favorite service location), and continue adding to the glory of God.
Romans 15:1–7 concludes Paul's teaching on how Christians with strong faith, those who understand their freedom from the law, should live with those of weaker faith. All Christians must please each other and not themselves. After all, Christ didn't come to please Himself. With God's help and encouragement, everyone in the church can live together in harmony and glorify God with one, unified voice as they serve each other ahead of themselves. They must welcome each other as Christ has welcomed them.
The following is an excerpt from an article by Ken Weliever that I think is helpful. He uses the NIV translation of Romans 15:7 which uses the word “accept” in place of “welcome.” The full article can be found here.
The word “accept” in this text means, “to take as one’s companion; to take by the hand and lead. To grant access to one’s heart; to take into friendship.
To accept our brother and sister in Christ is not just to begrudgingly put up with them. It is not just to belong to the same church, but having nothing to do with them. (Instead,)It is to welcome them, to extend to them the right hand of fellowship; to extend to them all the prerogatives and privileges of every other member.
We accept our fellow brothers and sisters because Christ has accepted us. We’ve been welcomed into fellowship with the lord. We’ve been forgiven for our sins. We’ve been made an heir of salvation. We belong to the Lord by his grace and mercy. Thus, we should accept others.
Accepting one another is the mark of a healthy spiritual family. We all share a common faith, are joined by a common love, and sustained by a common hope. This understanding greatly aids in fostering unity in the Body of Christ.
Sometimes accepting one another is difficult and demanding, but it can be accomplished when we follow the dictates of Scripture in Romans 14 and 15:
Avoid passing judgment. (Romans 14:1-4)
Commit yourself to live for Christ. (Romans 15:5-12)
Control your attitudes and emotions with love. (Romans 14:13-18)
Edify everyone you can. (Romans 14:19-21)
Privately hold to your personal convictions. (Romans 14:22-23)
Treasure people like Jesus does. (Romans 15:1-3)
Invitation
How can you welcome others today with the same love and grace that Christ has shown you? How do you bring glory to God in your daily life?
Be Humble Toward One Another (Bob Schwartz)
This Week's Scripture
Week of December 22
"Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.'” (1 Peter 5:5)
Reflection
From Bob Schwartz
Advent soon surrenders to Christmas. These final days of Advent give us the opportunity to enter Christmas showing the spiritual qualities that please God. Holiness and hope. Friendship and faith. Hospitality and humility.
Peter's words address humility and its archenemy: pride. Seeing too much pride and too little humility, Peter reminded young Christians to embrace humility in order to harmonize with God. He addressed a theme that Hebrew writers had considered for nearly a thousand years: "Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18). Jesus Himself often warned against pride and instead famously blessed the meek, the merciful, and the pure in his Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5:5-9).
I once attended a men's meeting where Christmas was the topic for discussion. I was eager to dig in because Christmas is my favorite time of the year. The man on my left shared that he hated Christmas with its gaudy lights and tacky decorations. The next man hated Christmas due to the stress of finding perfect gifts. The next man dreaded Christmas because he had to feign interest in relatives who visited. See the pattern? Christmas offended these men because they could not focus on themselves.
When my turn came, I shared that I loved Christmas because of its opportunity to relive Jesus's coming into this world through the various sights and sounds and smells of our traditions. Twinkling lights outside. Christmas trees. Homemade cookies and eggnog. Christmas dinner. Family and friends. Staying up late for Midnight Mass.
What I'd heard from the other men, though, helped me see something else in Christmas: Christian traditions during Advent and Christmas direct believers away from self toward others. We put up wreaths or lights to bring joy to the hearts of passersby. We forgo another necktie or cocktail so there’s money for gifts to make loved ones happy. We drop off toys at the Salvation Army or a Toys for Tots bin to help families we'll never even meet.
Christmas directs us out of and up from ourselves. It sends us back in time, then whizzes us right to the present moment. Always thinking of others. To the baby Jesus. To Mary and Joseph. To the little town of Bethlehem. To angels and shepherds. To the lives and needs of family, friends, and strangers. As surely as the dark of night gives way to daybreak, pride surrenders to humility. It is in just this posture of humility that God Himself can do His work in us.
Is it any wonder that so many people love Christmas? They are feeling the effects of God working in them, drawing them away from self and toward a right posture of humility toward others.
Prayer
Dear Lord, Heavenly Father, please send your angels and archangels to protect us from the forces calling us away from you. Please help us surrender the devices and desires of our own hearts. Please replace them with Jesus and with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and humility. Please guide us into Christmas with clean hearts so we more fully experience your holy birth. Thank you, Father, and Merry Christmas!
Invitation
Will we choose faith, love, and charity? Forgiveness? Respect? Humility?
The final days of Advent offer the opportunity to answer the living question beneath all the others: Do we surrender to self, or do we surrender to Jesus Christ?
Let me close by asking you the questions that I am asking myself: What specific ways can you show more humility toward others on a daily basis? Can you develop one habit of humility toward others this season?”
Bearing One Another's Burdens (Robbie Moore)
This Week's Scripture
Week of December 15
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
Reflection
From Robbie Moore
I think that this call to bear one another’s burdens is a tremendously challenging way to live. Why? It requires us to step outside ourselves and our immediate and individual problems, and to see and do our best to feel the sufferings of our neighbor. It asks us to be exceedingly humble and empathetic, almost impossibly so at times, yet this is the example we see in Jesus time and time again. I think the parable of the Good Samaritan is one of the greatest examples of this type of love, where we see a Samaritan man sacrifice time, resources, and maybe even social status to care for his enemy. Similarly, Jesus always makes time for the person who is suffering and is always willing to walk alongside us in our pain.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank you for giving us people to walk through life with. Help us to be there for each other, especially when times get hard. Show us how to share the load, offer support, and bring comfort to those who are struggling. Teach us to love like you do—with patience, compassion, and a heart that’s ready to help. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Invitation
Has someone ever helped you bear a burden?
In what specific ways can you help bear or share the burden of someone in your life?
Be Kind to One Another (Henry Ambrose)
This Week's Scripture
Week of December 8
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)
Reflection
From Henry Ambrose
Ephesians 4:32 is an easy verse to skim over, especially for teenagers who—largely—have been raised in the church. Even putting church aside, we are taught from a young age that being kind is simply the right thing to do. I think that the familiarity of this idea is the very reason we put so little priority on it. Paul, writing Ephesians, was addressing a fellow Christian community in Asia that had been fractured over disagreements concerning the Word of God. This advice, just to be kind, has the power to guide all of our decisions, especially in the world today. To us, I think that this verse should be a reminder to approach every interaction as Jesus would. It should challenge us to look at how we treat people, even when angry or frustrated. Am I showing grace and forgiveness, even in disagreement? In politics, relationships, or any time sides are taken, we as Christians should let kindness guide everything that we say, do, or think.
Prayer
God, help me to show kindness to others, regardless of how I’m feeling or how they’re behaving.
Invitation
Can you think of anyone who is consistently kind to others?
Does it sometimes feel as though being kind requires a lot of self-discipline?
What are ways we as the Church can show kindness in the world?
Have Fellowship with One Another (Friendship Commission)
This Week's Scripture
Week of December 1
“But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.” (1 John 1:7, NIV)
Reflection
From the Friendship Commission of the Vestry: Elizabeth Cox, Jonathan Morphett, Breck Wheeler, and Laura Wright
1 John 1:7 reminds us that our relationships, especially friendships, are profoundly enriched when we pursue a life rooted in God’s light. Walking in the light together means choosing to live with honesty, love, and integrity—qualities that deepen our friendships and our faith. This verse reminds us that when we live this way, we’re connecting with God and with each other in ways that bring lasting value and meaning to our friendships.
To build these kinds of friendships, let’s make time for purposeful connections. Whether through coffee dates, lunches, walks, a round of golf, or small group gatherings, intentional time together allows us to listen deeply, share openly, and encourage one another. When we prioritize time together, we create a place for God’s light to shine in our friendships, making room for real conversations about our dreams, challenges, and even areas we’re struggling. None of us has to pretend to have it all together, because Jesus’s love purifies us and reminds us that we are accepted just as we are. This openness creates a friendship built on grace, where we can uplift one another and grow closer to God.
Our friendships can also be a place of gentle accountability, helping each other grow in faith and character. Let’s make a habit of checking in on each other’s goals—spiritual, personal, and even professional—and encouraging each other to stay true to who God calls us to be. We can set up regular “accountability coffee dates” or times to pray together, not out of judgment but out of a genuine desire to see each other thrive. This kind of intentional encouragement makes our friendships sources of strength and helps each of us grow in areas where we may feel weak or uncertain.
Walking in the light together also means being there for each other during both highs and lows. Our friendships become a refuge, a place to share burdens and celebrate victories. Let’s plan to be present in each other’s lives in tangible ways—showing up for big moments, supporting each other through tough seasons, and celebrating wins together. These gestures remind us of God’s love, helping us feel seen and supported even in the challenges.
Ultimately, our friendships become living examples of what it means to walk in God’s light. By sharing time, accountability, and encouragement, we reflect God’s love and grow closer to Him together. As we continue to meet, pray, and support one another, our friendships become more than bonds—they become journeys of faith that enrich our lives and strengthen our walk with God. Let’s commit to nurturing our friendships intentionally, making them sources of joy, growth, and light in each other’s lives.
Invitation
How can you create intentional time with your friends this week to deepen your connection through Christ? Consider planning a coffee date, lunch, walk, or sporting event where you can openly share, encourage, and pray for each other.
Do you have a servant’s heart? If so, consider inviting someone to volunteer with you in the church or community this week.